In today’s global economy, the ability to connect with other professionals is essential. Whether you are in a networking event, a business meeting, or even a job interview, developing relationships can help you grow your career, your business, and even your social network. Women in particular face a few challenges in this area, I explore them further and provide some suggestions on how to overcome them.
First, women are reluctant to speak to strangers. Since we were little girls our parents told us is not safe to talk to strangers, and somehow that idea still lurks in our minds as we become grown women and approach the later stages in our lives. However, in business talking to strangers is a necessity to market our products and services, and to grow our own personal brand.
If women only talk to the people they are familiar with, we will miss opportunities to make new connections and establish valuable contacts.
Techniques for Women to market themselves in Networking Events:
1. Have clear goals before you attend the event. Review the attendance sheet and decide who you want to talk to. Make a plan to have questions to ask by researching the company and the industry. Read on industry news and trends so you sound knowledgeable and sincerely interested in what they do. That should give you the confidence you need to approach strangers in a networking event or any other industry event.
2. Be confident in how you look. It is very importalnt that we feel confident in how we look and feel, so thatwe are clear to focus on the event and the people we want to meet. How many times have you left the house hating what you are wearing?
Plan the night before what you are going to wear the next day, together with shoes and jewelry, even put it on to make sure it all feels right, and the next day you take the guess work out of getting dressed. But don’t be afraid to change if you do not ‘feel’ the outfit. The important thing is to feel confident on your appearance and yourself.
3. Rehearse a self-introduction. Since men usually initiate conversations in a social setting, women many times feel intimidated to just walk up to a stranger and start a conversation. If you are prepared, you will feel confident to start a dialogue and the conversation can run smooth from there.
4. Ignore the preception that you may be flirting! This is an unspoken misconception that have cast a shadow on professional women for many many years. It can be misconstrued as flirting when a woman approaches a man with a confident smile, shake his hand, and start a conversation.
Women, do not be afraid of this, it is a fact that may never change. We can no longer hold back because of this silly misconception and must move forward and take advantage of any and all opportunities to harbor relationships that will serve beneficial for our careers.
So to recap, be confident, have a plan, know what to say, and networking will become easier with time. It is a skill that will take some time to master, but as long as you are putting yourself out there and try, you will be fine.